'Sex and Sonics' - A Discussion of Physical Intimacy in Doctor Who

After some talk in The Badge Discussion Thread, I got the idea for this thread.

Obviously sex is a topic that the classic series tended to mostly lean away from, leading to a lot of people reading The Doctor as an Asexual character. This seemed to start to change with romance being a big part of the TV movie, and then the revival starts to actually discuss those themes a little bit, especially Moffat.

Then, of course, came Torchwood, the adult spin-off that initially tried to distance itself from Doctor Who by, among other things, being more explicit. The infamous ā€˜Sex Gasā€™ being a cause of ridicule and making many people stop watching the show.

Class also touches on it a bit with multiple main characters getting into relationships and with everything that involves.

And off the top of my head thereā€™s the infamous BBV Zygon film, while not particularly well acted, shot, or written, it does have some very interesting things to say about sex and sexuality.

So yeah, I wanted to create a thread to discuss what Doctor Who and itā€™s expanded materials have to say about the theme of sex. Hopefully staying mature about the subject.

If this is a bit too mature for the forum, moderators are welcome to delete this post or move to members only.

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Want to start this off my mentioning Orr, both the Character and the Story.

Orr is a member of Torchwood from The Story Continues range and the first Alien member of Torchwood (ish, depends if you count Ng at that point). Orrā€™s a Sexual Psychomorph, basically a shapeshifter who automatically transforms (physically and to a lesser extent mentally) to become whatever the people around them sexually desire.

One thing I really like about that story is Orrā€™s discussion with Mr Colchester about Colin. When itā€™s just them and Colchester, they end up transforming into Colin (Mr Colchesterā€™s husband), but notably not as he currently looks, but instead how he looked a few years ago.

Itā€™s a small thing, but I think that itā€™s a really interesting moment, both from an in universe perspective with the conversation Orr and Colchester have about it, but also from a meta perspective with what Juno Dawson is saying about sexual attraction and relationships though that interaction.

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As I have written in the other thread. I think that the most interesting take on sexuality is the Zygon movie. It does something with gender that I donā€™t have seen in any other media. I also feel like the production of it is better than most people give it credit for. Is it perfect? Hell no. But I do think that it is good.

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I think we should start from the beginning.

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This is from the Twin Dilemma novelization.

But do not fear. The Doctor has since found the error in his beliefs!

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I honestly feel like Six has witnessed more births than any other Doctor lol. Itā€™s at least four times, and he has even assisted in some. I think he has a kink now.

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I in fact literally just relistened to Summer of Love which is famously the Benny sex pollen episode that gets a lot of hate because of the obvious consent issues present in that trope. However, I donā€™t think think it fully deserves its reputation, because it does actually have some almost interesting commentary about the trope and does definitely do some interesting things with the characters.

I think I understand why people are jarred by this one - it is very fanfiction made canon feeling, which isnā€™t necessarily a problem in itself, but I think it dives into a category of trope that isnā€™t too often explored in DW and its universe. One thing I do appreciate often about Benny as a character too is how sex positive she is, and how she often expresses sexual desire and isnā€™t punished by the narrative for it, which is common for women in fiction. I just like that sheā€™s allowed to be a little horny and a lot of a disaster all of the time, I find that refreshing.

As for Mr Dr Who themself, theyā€™re aroace to me forever and any relationships they have with companions are all meaningful to them in some way or another. There is no one single ā€˜loveā€™ for the Doctor. They just love everyone

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I do think the discussion of how a shapeshifter would view gender, sex, and sexuality is an interesting topic, but yeah I just donā€™t think Zygon really does it all that well

In contrast, with how The Story Continues does it, itā€™s one of the reasons why Orr is my second favourite member of Torchwood of all time (especially being genderqueer myself)

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I do think that the main show can do sex in kind of a weird way sometimes. Like what is Amy supposed to work as? A kissogram? Is that a sex worker? A striper? Something else? I think that it would be better to skip that part.

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You might have convinced me to listen to Torchwood. It is just so muchā€¦

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Oh god yeah I forgot about that

Moffat has his moments /pos

DOCTOR: Relax, heā€™s a fifty first century guy. Heā€™s just a bit more flexible when it comes to dancing.

ROSE: How flexible?

DOCTOR: Well, by his time, you lot have spread out across half the galaxy.

ROSE: Meaning?

DOCTOR: So many species, so little time.

ROSE: What, thatā€™s what we do when we get out there? Thatā€™s our mission? We seek new life, and, and-

DOCTOR: Dance.

But he also has his moments /neg

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I think the Zygon Movie does something interesting with showing us how our main character is somewhat attracted to women and then to have her shape change into a man who then has sex with a woman. Really weird, but kind of fascinating.

In the Class book Joyride we also have Ram who has his body taken over by a closeted gay man who then has sex with a man using Ramā€™s body without Ram knowing about it afterwards. No idea what to make of that one honestly. Not a particularly interesting book eitherā€¦

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Oh huh, thatā€™sā€¦ something /neg

On my to read list eventually too so I guess Iā€™ll get to it

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Something similar happens to Benny in The Stoneā€™s Lament (?) (yes looks like I am in Benny mode atm haha) - she gets mind swapped with someone who has sex with her body and gets her pregnant which sounds bad and it kind of is, but it is a good story and it has big impacts on the rest of the Benny story forever so itā€™s a kind of load-bearing not ideal event and itā€™s treated as such, which I think makes the biggest amount of difference in these sensitive kinds of topics - ultimately turning around and saying ā€˜hey, so maybe that was f*cked up and we shouldnā€™t do thatā€™

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Yeah I think this is the biggest thing to keep in mind when topics like this come up in stories

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Thatā€™s not The Stoneā€™s Lament. Itā€™s the next story, the novel The Squireā€™s Crystal.

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Reading that makes me think maybe TARDIS guid should have a bit for trigger warnings for storiesā€¦

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I was close, I always get what happened in what book confused

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I know you may be joking but I have thought about this as an idea.

Of course, trigger warnings can also be spoilers, so maybe youā€™d have to be able to choose which warnings you really want to be notified about.

It seems like a lot of hard work to add though!

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Not a joke at all! Thought the triggers could be spoilered like the tropes bit, but being able to choose them specifically would probably be better yeah. I use ā€œdoes the dog dieā€ so I was also thinking about how that site works too.

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Something I can look at adding in the future, thought it would need crowdsourcing the actual data!

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This spreadsheet would be a good resource for that, at least for big finish

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